Emotional Support
The Balanced Wheel Story
At Balanced Wheel, we understand that the loss of a loved one is one of life’s most profound challenges. Grief can feel isolating, overwhelming, and all-consuming. But it doesn’t have to be the end of your story.
We believe that everyone who has experienced loss deserves the opportunity to heal, rebalance, and rebuild their lives. That’s why we’re here—to provide compassionate emotional support and practical tools to help you navigate the complexities of grief and rediscover purpose, strength, and joy.
Our mission is to help you move from grief to growth, offering guidance and resources to help you heal, rebalance, and thrive.
A Journey Born from Loss
Balanced Wheel was founded by Tolulope Olajide on 30 September 2020, six months after the sudden loss of his beloved wife, Chidinma. Tolu’s life changed overnight when he became a widower and the sole caregiver to their two young children, aged just 4 months and 2 years. In the midst of his grief, Tolu began writing a blog to share his journey—his pain, his struggles, and his efforts to adjust to a life he never imagined .
What started as a personal outlet to connect with family and friends during the Covid-19 pandemic soon grew into something much larger.
Tolu’s candid storytelling resonated with others who were also navigating loss. His words offered comfort, hope, and practical advice to those facing similar challenges. Inspired by the legacy of his late wife and driven by a desire to help others, Tolu transformed Balanced Wheel into a registered charity in the UK and Wales in February 2021.
Today, Balanced Wheel is a beacon of hope for those grieving the loss of a loved one. We provide emotional support, practical resources, and a compassionate community to help individuals heal, rebalance, and rebuild their lives.

A Network of Support and Hope
Helping You Heal, Rebalance, and Thrive
Heal
We provide emotional support to help you navigate the pain of loss and begin the healing process.
Rebalance
We offer tools and resources to help you address the secondary losses that often accompany grief, guiding you toward harmony across all dimensions of well-being.
Thrive
We empower you to embrace life with renewed strength, balance, and purpose, helping you grow beyond grief.
Why “Balanced Wheel”?
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